“Yes, I like you and I want to get married to you and I care a damn to whoever opposes”.
“Oh god, what do I do, my parents are denying to get me married to my Lady Love”.
Hello Mrs.Mathur, “Is your daughter/son’s an arranged marriage or a love marriage?”
“Oh, I guess this must be an arranged cum love marriage, look at the couple they are so happy”.
All the above sentences are the most common ones we get to hear most of the times from people who are dying to get married or from the crowd who attend marriages.
The first sentence mentioned above, I guess; is spoken out of frustration and such people who can really survive either kill themselves or the opposition party to achieve what they want. But, I guess it does not fulfill the criteria JJJ Kill yourself, No marriage; “YOU DO NOT EXIST”, Kill Others, No marriage; “PRISON EXISTS” JJJJJ
The second one comes out of helplessness; such people either give up or convince their parents, well and good if the latter happens JJJ lived happily, ever-after scene JJ
Just look at sentence three, it really is disgusting; lady might have come for the wedding bare-handed to satisfy hunger and quench thirst with a delicious and a sumptuous meal, why should she even be bothered about the wedding? Why can’t she just mind her bloody business and get out is what most of the parents feel internally; however there is a fake smile exhibited with some words which may really not satisfy our pot-bellied guest.
The fourth and the last one is a little acceptable, people are actually enjoying the party accompanied with few comments.
There are people who elope with their Prince charming or Lady Love, get married try convincing their parents and lead a happy life. Few are the scenarios where the family turns out to be the happiest family as soon as a grand-child is born. Some of such situations might turn out to be fruitful and some a nightmare if the parents belong to our Hitler Hero’s clan or if they start to emotionally torture their children to get their egos satisfied. (This applies both to kids and parents).
Few instances might be fruitful while the rest a nightmare; either leaving behind dissatisfied set of parents or the couple.
Why does this always happen? There are tons of quotes and proverbs that are still famous; they were all created by our ancestors and fore-fathers. Are the quotations created are meant to be used only in theory and while writing essays to improve our language skills? Why can’t the same be applied practically?
This is the most popular quote said by all and followed by less, “Marriages are made in Heaven” and I guess this is something that is not followed practically. Why is this happening? Is it because our ancestors have forgotten the quote they made or is the younger generation who fail to understand the pulse of their parents?
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Parents think and discuss that their children are now grown ups and they are out of their reach; their decisions mean nothing to them and the respect they had towards us has all vanished in thin air. They earn a lot and yes, the generation is now changed completely.
Children, on the other end sit and think, “My parents say that I am a grown-up but why are they deciding on my behalf”. Views about me change depending on their convenience. This is the problem of the older generation.
Do you think, blaming each other or the generation would solve our riddle?
Why don’t we start to keep life simple, why don’t we try to solve our brain tickler in a better and a simple way? JJJJJJJ
One Mantra SOLUTION FOR ALL PROBLEMS JJJJJNo matter, however the marriages are done, love cum arranged or vice versa:
We should all realize and never forget that “MARRIAGES ARE MADE IN HEAVEN” so they should definitely be
“LOVELY ARRANGED or ARRANGED LOVELY”.
